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Dear Maggie Mae

 


 Dear Sweet Maggie,


It feels almost impossible to put into words the depth of the sadness and emptiness we feel without you. Fifteen years, Maggie. Fifteen years of unconditional love, joy, and companionship. You were more than just a pet; you were a part of our family, a constant presence in our lives, and a source of endless comfort. Now, the house feels so quiet, so still, without the pitter-patter of your paws or the soft thud of your tail against the floor.


I remember the day my mom and dad adopted you.  You were just a tiny bundle of fur, full of energy and curiosity. Over the years, you grew into their faithful friend, always there with a wagging tail and those soulful eyes that seemed to understand their every mood. You had a way of sensing when they needed comfort, nudging your head under their hands, offering silent support.


When mom had her stroke back in September, we took you in, wanting to make sure you were cared for during such a difficult time. You adapted so well to our home, Maggie. You got along so beautifully with Jessa and Alabama, forming a new bond with them that warmed our hearts. Even our cats, found a friend in you. You were gentle and patient with them, and it wasn’t long before you were all cuddled up together as if it had always been that way.



Your sudden departure has left a void that nothing can fill. It was so unexpected. One moment you were there, and the next, you were gone. A stroke took you from us so quickly, and we didn’t have time to prepare, to say goodbye properly. It’s hard to come to terms with the fact that we will never see your face again, never feel the warmth of your body snuggled up next to us.


Grief is a strange, unpredictable thing. Some days, we feel the weight of your absence pressing down on us. Other days, memories of you bring a smile to our faces, even as tears stream down our cheeks. It’s a rollercoaster of emotions, and it’s hard to know what to do with all these feelings.


But Maggie, we need to say this out loud: It’s perfectly fine to grieve. It’s okay to mourn your loss deeply, to feel this pain and sadness. You were a significant part of our lives, and losing you is like losing a piece of ourselves. Grieving for you is a testament to the love and bond we shared. It’s a way to honor your memory and acknowledge the joy you brought into our lives.



We’ve kept your favorite blanket, the one you always curled up on It's comforting in a small way, but nothing can truly replace the warmth of your body or the sound of your little feet.


You loved going for walks, whether it was just around our neighborhood or in the park. Those walks were special to us, watching you explore with the curiosity and excitement of a puppy. And in these last months, you even started playing with your toys again like you did when you were younger. It was as if you found a new lease on life, bringing joy to everyone around you.


In the quiet moments, we talk about you. We share stories of your silly antics, your unwavering loyalty, and the little things that made you so special. We laugh through our tears, remembering the times you made us feel loved and protected. Your memory lives on in our hearts, in the stories we tell, and in the way we carry forward the lessons you taught us about love and loyalty.


Maggie, you were more than a dog to us. You were a confidant, a guardian, a friend. Your absence is a painful reminder of how much you meant to us, but we know that grieving for you is a necessary part of healing. We will always miss you, always love you, and always hold you close in our hearts.



Rest in peace now, sweet Maggie. You were, and always will be, our beloved companion.


With all our love,


Your Family

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